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The man with the chair




Last week, both with my high school tutees and with my students at the jail, I asked them to pick one of four pictures from Humans of New York to write about. The assignment was to tell me about the person in the photo, then to ask that person some questions, and then, in that person's voice, to answer the questions.

from the photo essay book Humans of New York

I got two deeply contrasting stories about this man from my students at the jail. One saw him as an "intelligent graduate, following his big New York dream ... which is to play in the Apollo" to become a musician--but with a safety job as a lawyer. The other--an older woman, who's been homeless herself--saw him as homeless. The questions she wanted to ask him were very practical: would you like a home-cooked meal; would you like a hot shower and a place to sleep; can I give you ten dollars "for something positive not negative."

Her answers almost undid me. She imagined him saying [paraphrasing], yes, I would love a home-cooked meal, as long as you let me do the dishes; yes I would love a hot shower, but only if you let me clean up after myself; a place to sleep on a couch or the floor would be great, and any amount of money would be appreciated. She finished with "I just wanted to thank you for being kind and offering all that to me."




This entry was originally posted at http://asakiyume.dreamwidth.org/849025.html. Comments are welcome at either location.

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sartorias
May. 3rd, 2017 12:32 am (UTC)
Oh, wow. What a generous nature that woman has. Especially given she has been put in survival mode during her life.
asakiyume
May. 3rd, 2017 11:51 am (UTC)
I asked her if anyone had ever done these things for her when she was homeless, and she said yes. There are some amazing people out there.
xjenavivex
May. 6th, 2017 06:56 pm (UTC)
Wow
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